Ok all. . .here it is, the big mama. . .the mack daddy. . .THE WORST FIRST DATE EVER! I know many of you have been patiently waiting for me to get to this date because it is so incredible, so unbelievable, so hysterically funny and I assure you that every word is complete truth. Some may believe that I am embellishing for the sake of this story but I promise that I am not, you just can’t make this stuff up!
Ready? Let’s begin!
Jeff and I had our date planned for Saturday night at 7:00, we are to meet at AZN for a 7:15 reservation. I arrive right at 7:00, don’t want to be too early but I certainly don’t want to be late so I slide in right on time, looking fabulous I might add! But I don’t see him, I peek around the restaurant and look around outside, nothing.
Ta-da ( I hope by now you realize that is my cell notifying me that I have a text)
Running late
Ok. . .doesn’t tell me much, how late? But at least I know I haven’t been stood up, which is a huge fear of mine! I wait patiently for his arrival which finally happens 30 minutes late. I could be really mad but he is surprisingly good looking, dark hair and the very big bonus of being tall. . measuring in at 6’5”. Ok, I can forgive being late for this tall drink of water!
Dinner begins with him ordering a beer and I order a glass of wine. . .quick break in our awesome conversation to place our orders and finally getting around to eating. This date is really going well, much to my surprise and joy. We are really clicking and the conversation is just flowing out of both of us. Until he says. . .
If I meet someone that I am interested in having a relationship with and I think we could have a relationship, I will stop talking to all other girls just to see where it will go with the girl I am interested in.
Nice, I think. .. finally a respectable guy. . .oh how wrong I was!!! Sadly he continued talking and this is what fell out –
But you shouldn’t look at my phone because after I talked to you last night to confirm our date I texted everyone I know just to keep my options open!
Uh. . .what??? I couldn’t have heard that right. . right? Oh, yes I did. . very clearly he told me that he has ZERO interest in having a relationship with me. I was taken aback for a moment, but at least he was honest that we would just be friends. I am ok with that. . .little sad because he is tall, dark and handsome but I now know that the date is over. . . .after he pays for dinner of course!
Do you want to go to Blue Martini? He asks.
I still have time on my babysitting meter so sure. . .why not! The conversation is still flowing pretty well as we walk through Mercato up to Blue Martini, find a table outside and we both order martini’s. Suddenly, three sips into his martini something happens. He slouches over the table, holds his head up with one hand and aimlessly doodles on the table with the other.
I really miss my ex-girlfriend. He slurs. She was amazing, but I knew she would never trust me. The writing was on the wall about that relationship so I had to end it because she would never trust me.
Are you freakin’ kidding me? Now he is drunk and rambling on and on and on about his ex-girlfriend? I don’t think this date can get worse. . .good thing for all of my readers. . .that it really can get worse.
I decide to not let the drunk rambler ruin my night out, so I sit back in my chair, listen to the music and smile at the cutie across the bar. Occasionally over the music I hear drunko talking but I am not even bothering with being polite by pretending to listen.
I excuse myself to go to the bathroom, not that I have to go but I just wanted to be away from my table for a moment and see what else was happening in the bar. I slowly wander my way to the ladies room, chat with the ladies about my date to which they all offered hugs and excuses for me to get away from him. Smiles, the sisterhood can be so sweet and supportive! Their laughter gave me the boost to go back to the table where I see that Mr. Omgiamsodrunk’s martini is gone. Ahh. . .now I have my way out of this nightmare.
Oh, you’re done. Let me just have another sip of mine and we can go.
To which his response is to sit bolt upright, grab my martini off the table, slam it down and look me square in the eye and say –
Let’s go make out in my car
What? I reply shocked, appalled and unable to hid my total booger face.
There’s a connection here babe. . . let’s go make out in my car. Besides, you’re obviously getting cold so let me warm you up. He says this as he reaches across the table and runs his finger over my boob.
A brief separation from the story for a moment, for those that do not know. . .I had breast cancer a couple years ago, my treatment involved a bi-lateral mastectomy. Needless to say, my headlights are not flashing any longer because I don’t have nipples! Yes, weird and freaky. . .but true! So his “cold” comment was really just his excuse to grab my boob, which following reconstruction. . .looks amazing but still no nips!
Back to the date. . .I am speechless and don’t even know how to respond to that. The last time I was asked to make out in a car was in high school when that was the only place to make out!
Um. . .I have to go. . my babysitters are waiting for me.
But, I’m too drunk to drive home. He pleads.
Oh. . .well. . .there is a taxi stand right over there. I say as I point to the entrance of Blue Martini.
No. . . I am going to come home with you and we will see how compassionate you are because I am drunk so I won’t perform the best but I will make it up to you next time.
Again. . you must be freakin kidding me? He thought I was going to sleep with him but even better than that, he thought he was so awesome that he wouldn’t even have to be good and I would still sleep with him! Ha!
Since there is no possible response to what he said, I just turned a walked away. No goodbye, no niceties of any kind, just a disgusted look, pivoted on my foot and walked away.
One with complete mental capacity would think that there would be no further communication following a date such as that, right? Ohh, ohh, ohh. .. fortunately that is not where the story ends. I received numerous phone calls for a few days after the date complimenting me for a great time and can’t wait to do it again. All phone calls were ignored but I couldn’t not listen to the voicemails! My curiosity was too great. That only lasted a couple days then life was quiet again, until. . . my phone blew up one day with texts –
Hi Annie, I’ve tried to play it cool, but I like you. Ive never been so honest (or open!) on a date before. I was under the impression things went well. (what, so open and honest about being bad in bed, way to go bud!?!)
Could you tell me what went wrong? I wont be upset. I will probably try to change your mind! I know I could be a good person in your life. (Yes, making out in the car is definitely good in my life!)
Don’t rush to conclusions about me. I have a lot of friends who are girls but no relationships at the moment. Still since our date I haven’t been dating. (You haven’t been dating because you are a loser!)
Also, I am doing very well financially if that’s a concern. If the 70’s aren’t good enough for you, not sure what to tell ya. (What!?! I don’t even have a retort to this one!)
You seemed to have a good time on our date, but no word. I feel Ive been used for a free margarita and dinner. Is that what you’re about then? (We didn’t have margarita’s. . .but I was using you? Really?)
Sorry for getting upset.
All the best to you. I was (unusually) sorely disappointed not to hear back but youll receive no more texts from me without hearing from you first ok? Bye
Finally, closing that chapter!
So my dear friends. . .that is the tale of the worst first date ever. I could be upset, insulted, offended by the whole thing. But I think it is one of the funniest experiences of my whole life and a story I will retell until it lives on in infamy!
Toodles